# SOS 1:8 The Bridegroom's Response

Preached: November 22, 1978 by James R. Reynolds, Sr.

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> Song of Solomon 1:8 &mdash; If thou know not, O thou fairest among women, go thy way forth by the footsteps of the flock, and feed thy kids beside the shepherds' tents.

## INTRODUCTION

She has been calling out to him, seeking after him, and longing for him. She desires to be near him.

<p style="margin-left: 0.75in; margin-right: 0.5in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt"><b>Song
of Solomon 1:7 </b></font></font>
</p>
<p style="margin-left: 0.75in; margin-right: 0.5in; text-indent: 0.25in">
<font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt">Tell
me, O thou whom my soul loveth, where thou feedest, where thou makest
thy flock to rest at noon: for why should I be as one that turneth
aside by the flocks of thy companions?</font></font></p>
<p><br/>

</p>
<p style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt">When
God responds and begins to talk back to us, it is not always in the
way that we expect to hear. Sometimes He speaks to us in a corrective
manner and a rebuke instead of in blessing.</font></font></p>
<p><br/>

</p>
## I. A Corrective Admonition &mdash;

<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: 0.25in">&quot;<font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="4" style="font-size: 14pt">If
Thou Know Not&quot;</font></font></p>
<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: 0.25in"><br/>

</p>
<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.75in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt"><b>John
14:9 </b></font></font>
</p>
<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.75in; margin-right: 0.5in; text-indent: 0.25in">
<font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt"><font face="Arial, sans-serif">Jesus
saith unto him, </font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><b>Have I been
so long time with you, and yet hast thou not known me,</b></font><font face="Arial, sans-serif">
Philip? he that hath seen me hath seen the Father; and how sayest
thou then, Shew us the Father?</font></font></p>
<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: 0.25in"><br/>

</p>
### A. A Rebuke

<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt">The
Lord rebukes us to help us. Usually His rebukes are not stinging, but
mild. He is rebuking her because she should have known, she has been
with her, and spoken with her. She is more thrilled with Him than the
wine, but yet she says here, &quot;Where are you? How can I find you?&quot;
Here in response to her request he kindly rebukes her.</font></font></p>
<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.75in"><br/>

### B. A Loving Rebuke
  
<p style="margin-left: 0.75in; margin-right: 0.5in; page-break-after: avoid">
<font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt"><b>Hebrews
12:6 </b></font></font>
</p>
<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.75in; margin-right: 0.5in; text-indent: 0.25in">
<font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt">For
whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he
receiveth.</font></font></p>
<p class="western"><br/>

</p>
<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt">He
rebukes us because He loves us. He rebukes her here not to hurt her,
but to help her.</font></font></p>
<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in"><br/>

</p>

### C. An Informing Rebuke

<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt"><font face="Arial, sans-serif">Sometimes
people rebuke us and we don&apos;t know why we are getting rebuked. But,
he informs her that she should know, but is ignorant of the fact of
where He is. She did not know because she had been slothful in her
experience, but she </font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><b>should
have</b></font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"> known.</font></font></p>
<p class="western"><br/>

</p>
<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt">The
Lord&apos;s correction gets us in line to receive His blessing! There is
some obligation before we get the blessing.</font></font></p>

## II. A Complimentary Acclamation &mdash;

> O Thou Fairest Among Women,&quot;

<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt">Lest
she faint, he has something nice to say to her. He loves her because
there is much within her that he is pleased with even though there
are things that he is not pleased with. We cannot overlook the finest
little area because the Lord does not. </font></font>
</p>
<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in"><br/>

</p>
<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt">She
has said to him, &quot;I am black&hellip;like the tents of kedar.&quot; Yet, He
says to her, &quot;O Thou Fairest Among Women.&quot; How can he says this?
The Lord can see our failures; is He pleased with our failures?</font></font></p>
<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in"><br/>

</p>
<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt">God
sees us in the merits of His Son. The best we can do is not all that
God expects.</font></font></p>

### A. Imputed Righteousness

<p style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt">He
can says this because He has done something for her. When the glory
of God is upon a person they are beautiful&mdash;beautiful character and
life.</font></font></p>
<p class="western"><br/>

</p>
<p><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt"><font face="Arial, sans-serif">Imputed:
</font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><i>put down to your account</i></font></font></p>
<p><br/>

</p>
<p style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt">If
we are walking in the light according to His Word, He does not see
our faults and failures, but He sees His Son in us. He sees us in Him
not only as at the beginning, but as the completed product. Because
she has accepted of His grace, He has put down to her account of His
righteousness.</font></font></p>
<p style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in"><br/>

</p>
<p style="margin-left: 0.75in; margin-right: 0.5in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt"><b>Matthew
3:17 </b></font></font>
</p>
<p style="margin-left: 0.75in; margin-right: 0.5in; text-indent: 0.25in">
<font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt"><font face="Arial, sans-serif">And
lo a voice from heaven, saying, This is my beloved Son, in whom </font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><b>I
am well pleased</b></font><font face="Arial, sans-serif">.</font></font></p>
<p style="margin-left: 0.75in; margin-right: 0.5in"><br/>

</p>
<p style="margin-left: 0.75in; margin-right: 0.5in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt"><b>II
Corinthians 5:21 </b></font></font>
</p>
<p style="margin-left: 0.75in; margin-right: 0.5in; text-indent: 0.25in">
<font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt"><font face="Arial, sans-serif">For
he hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that </font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><b>we
might be made the righteousness of God in him.</b></font></font></p>

### B. Imparted Righteousness

Is it enough to have His righteousness imputed to us? Is it enough to have His righteousness put down to our account and then we live any way we want to live?

<p class="western" align="center" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in">
<font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt"><font face="Arial, sans-serif">THIS
ACCOUNT IS GOOD </font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><b>ONLY</b></font><font face="Arial, sans-serif">
</font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><u>AS I WALK IN THE LIGHT</u></font><font face="Arial, sans-serif">.</font></font></p>
<p class="western"><br/>

</p>
<p style="margin-left: 0.75in; margin-right: 0.5in; page-break-after: avoid">
<font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt"><b>I
John 1:7 </b></font></font>
</p>
<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.75in; margin-right: 0.5in; text-indent: 0.25in">
<font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt"><font face="Arial, sans-serif">But
</font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><b>if we walk in the light</b></font><font face="Arial, sans-serif">,
as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the
blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin.</font></font></p>
<p class="western"><br/>

</p>
<p class="western" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt"><font face="Arial, sans-serif">There
is no problem that you have that Christ can&apos;t deliver you from, but
you have to want to be delivered from it. We can, but we don&apos;t only
because we won&apos;t. </font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><b>We must
appropriate the benefits of Calvary</b></font><font face="Arial, sans-serif">.</font></font></p>
<p style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in"><br/>

</p>
<p style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in"><font size="3" style="font-size: 12pt"><font face="Arial, sans-serif">Others
are not my problem, but my own flesh is my problem. God wants to get
us beyond the place that not only is there a daily experience of the
impartation of His righteousness, but so that we may arrive at the
point of perfection. He sees her in a completed state: &quot;, </font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><i>O
thou fairest among women</i></font><font face="Arial, sans-serif">&hellip;&quot;
(1:8)</font></font></p>

## III. A Commanding Advertisement &mdash;

> Go Thy Way Forth by the Footsteps of the Flock&quot;

### A. Progression &mdash; &quot;Go Thy Way Forth&quot;

### B. Obedience &mdash; &quot;By the Footsteps of the Flock&quot;

## IV. A Conclusive Assignment &mdash;

> Feed Thy Kids&quot;

### A. Who is to Feed &mdash; We are to Feed Them
### B. Who is to be Fed &mdash; The Young Ones
### C. Where They are to be Fed &mdash; Guide them in the truth, and to where they&apos;ll get Truth

## CONCLUSION